If your tummy still feels soft or domed after baby, this gentle at-home test shows you where to begin, no clinic needed.
If your tummy still feels soft, domed or like it sticks out months after having your baby, you might be dealing with diastasis recti, the gentle separation of the two bands of muscle that run down the front of your belly. The good news is you do not need a clinic to start finding out. You can do a simple self-check at home in a few minutes, and it tells you a lot about where to begin. Let us walk through it together, calmly and without poking and prodding in a panic.
What is diastasis recti, in plain terms?
During pregnancy your growing bump stretches the connective tissue (the linea alba) that joins your left and right abdominal muscles. After birth that tissue can stay stretched and a little slack, leaving a gap down the middle. It is incredibly common and it is not a sign you did anything wrong.
For many mums the gap narrows on its own in the first few months. For others it lingers, and that is where consistent, breath-led core work makes a real difference over time. Results vary from person to person, so think of the self-check as a starting line, not a verdict.
How do you do the diastasis recti self-check at home?
Do this when your bladder is empty, ideally not straight after a big meal, on a firm surface like the floor or a bed. Wait until you have had clearance from your doctor or midwife to start gentle movement, usually around six weeks, and later if you had a c-section.
- Lie down and get comfortable. Rest on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor, roughly hip-width apart.
- Find your midline. Place the fingers of one hand flat across the middle of your belly, just above your belly button, fingertips pointing down towards your toes.
- Lift your head gently. Take a breath, then slowly raise just your head and the tops of your shoulders off the floor, like the very start of a tiny curl-up. Keep it small.
- Feel for the gap. As your muscles engage, press your fingers down softly. You will feel two firm ridges either side and a softer valley in the middle. Notice how many finger-widths fit in that valley.
- Check above and below too. Repeat the same press a few centimetres above the belly button, at the belly button, and a few centimetres below. The gap can differ at each spot.
- Feel the depth, not just the width. Gently let your fingers sink. A shallow gap with a springy, supportive bottom is a good sign. A deep gap where your fingers sink far down is worth noting.
Write down what you find: width in finger-widths, and whether it feels shallow or deep, at each of the three spots. This gives you a simple baseline to compare against in a few weeks.
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Finger-widths are a rough home guide, not a clinical diagnosis, but they help you understand roughly where you are and whether to seek hands-on help.
| What you feel | What it usually means |
|---|---|
| Less than 1 finger-width | Within the typical range; gentle core work helps you keep building tone |
| 1 to 2 finger-widths, shallow | Very common postpartum; consistent breath-led training usually helps over time |
| 2 to 3 finger-widths | Worth a focused, progressive programme and ideally a physio check-in |
| More than 3 finger-widths, or very deep | See a women's-health physio before starting; rule out a hernia |
What can and cannot a self-check tell you?
What it can tell you
- A rough sense of how wide your gap is
- Whether the gap is shallow or deep
- A baseline to track gentle progress over weeks
- Whether it is time to see a physio
What it cannot tell you
- A precise clinical measurement
- Whether a hernia is present
- How fast your tissue will recover, results vary
- That you must rush, this is not a race

What should I do after the self-check?
If your gap sits in the common range, the most helpful thing you can do is start gentle, breath-led core work that teaches your deep tummy muscles to fire again. Begin with diaphragmatic breathing, drawing your lower belly in softly as you exhale, before progressing to slow, controlled movements. Avoid crunches, heavy lifting and anything that makes your belly dome upward for now.
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The bottom line
A two-minute home check tells you your starting point, but it is what you do next that counts. Most mums in the common range can gently rebuild their core with consistent, breath-led work, while wider or deeper gaps deserve a professional set of eyes. Be patient with your body, results vary, and there is no shame in getting support.
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When can I do the diastasis recti self-check after birth?
Wait until you have had clearance from your doctor or midwife to start gentle movement, usually around six weeks, and later if you had a c-section. A light self-check is fine then, but stop and ask your provider if anything feels painful.
How many finger-widths is normal for diastasis recti?
A gap of less than one to about two finger-widths is very common postpartum and often responds well to gentle core work. A gap wider than about three finger-widths, or one that feels very deep, is worth showing to a women's-health physio.
Can diastasis recti close on its own?
For many mums the gap narrows naturally in the first few months. For others it lingers, and consistent, breath-led core training can help improve tone and function over time. Results vary from person to person.
When should I see a doctor or physio about ab separation?
See a women's-health physio if your gap is wider than three fingers, feels very deep, comes with pain or a noticeable bulge along the midline, as a bulge can suggest a hernia that needs medical assessment.
This article is general education, not medical advice. Always check with your doctor before starting postpartum exercise.